this is a stressful time of year. If there’s one thing that can help alleviate stress and keep you feeling nice and relaxed, it’s a little self-care. Getting off is maybe the best self-care that there is, so we’ve put together a list of the best Black Friday sex toy deals, from vibrators and suction stimulators to butt plugs and everything in between.
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MysteryVibe’s Crescendo 2 flexible vibrator has been on our best-of list since the very beginning. This thing is kind of amazing. It’s flexible, it can bend to contour to your body no matter how you’re using it, and it packs a whopping six internal motors. Using the MysteryVibe app, those motors can be individually customized too, so you can create your very own symphony of vibration patterns and intensities.
Pulse’s automated lube dispenser makes it easier than ever to get yourself or a partner ready to have a good time. Just put your hand underneath the little spout and the Pulse will dispense the lube right away. No need to mess with bottles ever again, just reach out and the Pulse will take care of it.
Dame’s Pom (8/10, WIRED Recommends) is an excellent vibrator. It’s flexible, fits comfortably in the palm of your hand, and is surprisingly powerful. The flexible body means it’s great for any genitals and will contour to your body no matter how you’re using it.
The Dame Com is a wand vibrator with an ergonomic bent to the soft, squishy head. The angle makes it much easier to reach a wide variety of places on your body, which makes it ideal for flying solo. Here’s a secret: It actually works pretty well as a muscle massager too, the angled head makes it easy to reach the upper part of your back or the back of your neck to loosen those knots.
The smaller sibling to the Crescendo 2, MysteryVibe’s Poco is a flexible vibrator in a compact package. It has the same sorts of joints for bending and folding as the Crescendo 2 does, but the Poco is smaller and a bit less articulated. The vibration motors are every bit as powerful though and come pre-programmed with some stimulating vibration patterns.
Biird’s Namii suction stimulator doesn’t just use the standard suction technology to simulate the gentle suction of oral sex, it also packs a surprisingly powerful vibrator. It has a soft squishy body that feels great to the touch, all the buttons are easy to reach and easy to tell apart with touch alone, and it comes with a charging cradle that doubles as an adorable little nightlight.
One of my favorite bundles, the We-Vibe Melt is a fun little suction stimulator that fits perfectly in the hand, and the Pillow Talk Sassy is a small, approachable internal vibrator. It’s a great pairing, especially if you’re either new to sex toys or just want to expand a small but growing collection.
The Vector Vibrating massager is an intermediate size so it’s a great pick for anyone who isn’t a super-pro at butt stuff. It’s curved to hit the P-spot and packs a surprisingly powerful internal motor.
The Rose suction stimulator is a novel little thing. Its shape makes it provide really unique and kind of tickly sensations. It’s great at providing that oral-sex-adjacent suction sensation, and its shape makes it a cute little nightstand.
Satisfyer’s Curvy 3+ is a suction stimulator with a unique body shape that makes it really fun to use on yourself or a partner. It is larger than the other suction toys on this list, but that means it’s easier to use in a wider variety of positions. The soft silicone body is also great for some light internal play.
Satisfyer’s Pro 2 suction toy is one of the toys I most often recommend to people new to suction toys. The hard plastic body makes it easy to grip and move around, and the angle of the soft silicone mouth is just perfect for reaching the clitoris or frenulum when you’re flying solo.
The Satisfyer Pro Penguin is such an adorable little toy, it’s hard not to recommend it. It’s a powerful little suction toy, but on top of that, it has a little bowtie. Plus, this bundle comes with the aforementioned Pillow Talk Sassy internal vibrator. There’s something for everyone here.
Sijo’s cooling sheets are super comfy if you’re a hot sleeper like I am. They’re silky to the touch and they keep you just warm enough at night without feeling like you’re being smothered. That light-and-cooling touch is great for something else too: Keeping you and a partner (or partners) from getting all hot and sweaty when you’re having sex. They’re honestly kind of a game-changer.
Black Friday Retailer Sales
Want to browse the sales yourself? Here are a few top retailers participating in Black Friday deals.